A WITCHE’S RECIPE FOR HAPPINESS
My dear little devils,
This quarantine is a great time to work on some issues that we were dragging along in our very busy life. I saw how self isolation brought a lot of emotions to the surface.
Some people never took the time to find out who they really are on their own and the wake up call can be pretty brutal. A lot of you have reached out to me and expressed how lonely they felt. It can feel very overwhelming when you suddenly find yourself staring at the very demons we were running from.
But that loneliness is a great time to finally understand who you are, what you need and how to be at peace with yourself. It’s not the first time I say this but how can you imagine finding someone to « complete you » ?… You can’t! You’re already complete!
You need to find how to be happy on your own. If someone comes along and has a positive effect on your journey, let them in! But don’t put your happiness on somebody’s shoulders, it’s an unrealistic responsibility.
That being said I am not saying you should go through life alone. Shine, be free, be passionate. It’s by being the best version of yourself that you will attract the same type of vibrations. Stop overthinking, if you have to force it then it’s not right.
The most important part of all of this is: Don’t let your ego and pride prevent you from experiencing your life to the fullest. It’s very easy to keep a distance and act like you never care. Because we were told that feeling is something to be ashamed and we all socially accepted it. I see through my DMs a lot of my little devils are hurting and feel like there is no more authenticity. They say hate the player don’t hate the game… well f*ck the game! If you want to play than don’t complain if you loose. You shouldn’t be playing games, you shouldn’t have to. But if you choose to, that is very different! You do you as long as it makes you happy.
Arrogance is a form of weakness, it shines a light on the very thing you are trying to hide by compensating. Knowing your worth and who you are will allow you to let your ego rest for a little while. When you know how awesome you are, you don’t need to prove anything to anyone. You don’t need people’s validation. You stop caring about the opinion of others and you start doing YOUR thing.
This is probably the most empowering feeling in life, the moment you realise you don’t need to watch your reflection in other people’s eyes.
The road is never-ending when it comes to self improvement. You have to stay open minded. Nobody’s perfect and that’s amazing! Perfection is a subjective concept and it should not be your goal. The ideal you build in your head will more often than not make you feel miserable. Take a moment to appreciate who you are, who you become, who you are with, the people who care about you. Stop trying to look everywhere to find happiness and peace of mind. You already made it to 2020 and that sh!t is not easy. The joy and confort you have been looking for your whole life you need to find within you. Only then will you be able to support and have a positive effect on the people you care about. I am not saying that you can’t have a positive effect now, on the contrary! It’s when you start this path that you will find out about all the toxic behaviour you had and how to channel all that pain into something good.
My little devils stay strong and thank you so much for all your wonderful messages. I support you and send you positive and healing vibes <3 Don’t forget you are never alone.
Love
Red