Being unapologetically yourself. The concept of elegance

Elegance...
I could talk to you for hours and hours about the concept of elegance.

Elegance isn’t about the amount of money you’re wearing. Elegance is about how you carry yourself and how you perceive the world around you.
But why does elegance have so little following?
Elegance is in fact extremely hard to achieve. It is a day to day battle.
It’s about shutting down the ego, putting aside the arrogance in you to find a simpler way and a true appreciation of your surroundings and of who you really are.

Being unapologetically yourself.

True elegance can only be achieved in the pursuit of virtue. You have to be truly elegant at heart in order for that delicate concept to emanate from every breath you take.

Remember that you should always make the person in front of you feel comfortable. It is not about having the upper hand.
On the contrary it is about treating every person with the same respect.

Remember that people usually forget what you tell them they never forget how you make them feel.
For instance, In public if you see somebody who is wrong. Instead of pointing it out and embarrassing that person try to rectify the situation so that person doesn’t feel ashamed of his or her mistake.
When you know where you stand and who you are you don’t need anybody’s approval. This is also why you don’t need to be right all the time. Don’t ever let the ego overpower your being.
You are much more than a physical appearance.
You may feel like life is a never ending complex experience. It is in fact very simple. Remember to appreciate and open your eyes to see the beauty that is surrounding you even in the smallest things.

Be kind, be compassionate, be tolerant.
We all make mistakes, we all have our crosses to bear. Don’t judge your neighbor you never know what they are going through.
Operate from a place of love.
Open your heart to a new way of being.
You will see you will soon attract miracles.

Love

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