They say hate the player don't hate the game...

On day you wake up and you're tired.

Tired of the lies, of the drama. Tired of having to pretend. Tired of having to wait before answering because you don't want to seem to eager when you're just being genuine. Tired of having to put a façade in order to seem more attractive to the person in front of you.

Tired of having to justify yourself for feeling because nowadays it is considered a sign of weakness..

But that day will change your perspective on relationship and believe me, it is very hard or impossible to go back.
That day you choose to be real, to be raw. Most important that day you choose peace of mind over ego and possession.

"catching feelings" is a very explicit expression, in what universe should feelings be compared to a disease?

The day you choose to be yourself instead of the idea of that heartless persona that you created in your brain to protect your heart, you will finally stop being scared.
Because once you realise that being hypersensitive or/and an empath doesn't mean that you're weak, it just means that you have the capacity to feel more ( which also means feeling more pain...) and being able to do so, you also have the capacity of being happier.  

Being honest and raw means that a lot of people will surely feel very uncomfortable next to you. That's a good thing. You can't go through life making everybody happy, some people will hate you with or without reason, that's a fact. Get used to it. 

Be careful who you let into your life. Being genuine doesn't mean being naive.
Just remember that if you're not being real, how do you expect the person in front of you to be honest and him/herself?

You can be kind and yourself and have boundaries. You're too extraordinary to hide behind a clone of yourself.

Love

Red