TOXIC MASCULINITY
My dear Little devils,
Tonight I want to say a few words about SEX.
More precisely how we are constantly harassed as women. It doesn’t matter what kind of job you have, you just have to walk around with a vagina to be a prey. The sexual frustration due to the quarantine is causing some mec to behave really inappropriately. As my little devils all know, I NEVER receive disrespectful messages ( or extremely rarely and considering the hundred of DM’s every day, it’s really nothing). But lately I’ve seen crazy things popping in my DMs.. ALSO FOR THOSE WHO DIDN’T FOLLOW:
I was going for a run and I got arrested by the cops (controlling my papers to see if I was allowed out during quarantine) and they starting hitting on me and asking me out for a drink right after my jog. I was alone in the streets of Paris jogging, they were 4 cops in a car… intimidating much?
Listen I’m tired of that creepy attitude, those men are the reason why women feel unsafe. They try to overpower us with their toxic masculinity.
And they cause women to have trust issues..
Then who takes the blame? REAL men with emotional intelligence, what I refer to as « sacred masculinity ».
This needs to stop! we shouldn’t have to be scared when we are walking down the streets or simply jogging. We shouldn’t have to think twice before getting dressed because we have to « be careful ». We shouldn’t have to stop shining because some animals can’t keep it in their pants!
No seriously I’ve been doing photoshoots for quite some time and believe me it has NOTHING to do with your job. I was quite shocked in NY to see that men were daring to hit on me when I was walking… with my father!
As a sicilian you can only imagine how unacceptable this type of behaviour is ..
But also simply as a human being.
We need to educate young boys, teach respect to those who have forgotten it. But under no circonstance should a queen have to stop shining because a men is threatening her with his toxic masculinity.
I vow to fight until the end so that women can rise and be free, free to be themselves without having to feel shame or fear. The road will be long but it is united that we can make a change.
So let’s walk that path together, REAL men and women of all over the world.
Love
Red