teaching your partner your love language should not be perceived as an attack.
My little devils,
so apparently IG has been banning most of my pictures and my videos which makes it really really hard for me to send my positive message out...
thank God I have this beautiful community that I can count on and I feel so blessed and grateful.
Now let’s talk.
it isn’t always easy to navigate this life being a kind person.
A lot of people will take advantage of that beautiful trait.
And yet I beg you please my little devils don’t give into the hate don’t give into the intolerance and don’t close up your heart just because there are a few people out there that are too blind to see your worth.
Your perfect match won’t make you doubt yourself, on the contrary.
If the person in front of you is inconsistent, just walk away.
Love shouldn’t be this painful.
Love is in fact quite simple if you’re with the right person.
but I know how people love to fluff themselves and how people love the reflection of themselves in your eyes.
people love to give advice and yet they rarely apply those advices to their own life.
yes you should act from a place of love but also remember that you should aim your attention on somebody who is worth it.
If you have to question your partners interest, then you already know there’s a problem.
Buddha says to free yourself from suffering, free yourself from attachment.
And yet we are human, so it is perfectly normal to get attached to somebody you have a connection with.
NoW t’s not really matter of expectations.
it is OK to want your partner to be here for you. Of course you should never fall into the trap of a codependent relationship.
This is why self-love is so important you have to know your own boundaries, your own love language.
teaching your partner your love language should not be perceived as an attack.
so, Pay attention. Pay attention when words don’t match the actions.
I always tell people not to trust me on what I say but rather observe and see if my actions match my words then you can decide to trust me.
I know how amazing you are and you deserve not to have to settle for any less.
You’re a divine creature, Don’t ever forget it.
Love
Red
so apparently IG has been banning most of my pictures and my videos which makes it really really hard for me to send my positive message out...
thank God I have this beautiful community that I can count on and I feel so blessed and grateful.
Now let’s talk.
it isn’t always easy to navigate this life being a kind person.
A lot of people will take advantage of that beautiful trait.
And yet I beg you please my little devils don’t give into the hate don’t give into the intolerance and don’t close up your heart just because there are a few people out there that are too blind to see your worth.
Your perfect match won’t make you doubt yourself, on the contrary.
If the person in front of you is inconsistent, just walk away.
Love shouldn’t be this painful.
Love is in fact quite simple if you’re with the right person.
but I know how people love to fluff themselves and how people love the reflection of themselves in your eyes.
people love to give advice and yet they rarely apply those advices to their own life.
yes you should act from a place of love but also remember that you should aim your attention on somebody who is worth it.
If you have to question your partners interest, then you already know there’s a problem.
Buddha says to free yourself from suffering, free yourself from attachment.
And yet we are human, so it is perfectly normal to get attached to somebody you have a connection with.
NoW t’s not really matter of expectations.
it is OK to want your partner to be here for you. Of course you should never fall into the trap of a codependent relationship.
This is why self-love is so important you have to know your own boundaries, your own love language.
teaching your partner your love language should not be perceived as an attack.
so, Pay attention. Pay attention when words don’t match the actions.
I always tell people not to trust me on what I say but rather observe and see if my actions match my words then you can decide to trust me.
I know how amazing you are and you deserve not to have to settle for any less.
You’re a divine creature, Don’t ever forget it.
Love
Red