We all make mistakes - How to forgive yourself and rise?

We all make mistakes

Whereas they are big or small we need to remember one thing

You can’t go back in time

You can’t undo what’s already done

But forget yourself because it is an occasion to learn and grow wiser.

We aren’t perfect. Even when we want to look the other way, guilt and shame are two compagnons that won’t let us forget.

So forgive yourself. Even if you think you don’t deserve to.

You have carried the weight on your shoulders long enough.

That shadow that you try not to face is teaching you how to not fall back into the same path.

That shadow is your greatest teacher. It is not a fatality but a new experience.

Because in life there is only experiences. You will make more mistakes and you will learn more and that’s ok.

Stop bringing yourself down because you didn’t meet that ideal you made of yourself in your head. You are wonderful as you are and the hapiness that you think this perfect form will bring to you is in fact already within your beautiful soul.

It can be really hard not to listen to our ego, not to listen to our pride.

Sometimes we judge others too severely because we don’t allow any margin of errors for ourselves.

But when you feel triggered by somebody’s actions, remember you are not part of that story. That trigger you feel is a trauma you haven’t adressed yet.

We spend most of our lives trying to run away from the feeling.

Staying in our confort zone because taking the risk could also mean fail.

But do you remember how brave you were as a kid ? How big you used to allow yourself to dream before you added all these expectations on your « happiness TO-DO list « ?

You’re not too old, you might have stopped believing in your own magic for a while.

Because you were hurt, because you encountered a few disruptions to that « perfect plan » and now you’re questionning it all.

Forgive yourself. 

Everytime you tripped and fell, every single one of your steps led you to this moment.

 It is never too late to believe in yourself.

Free yourself and rise.

 You are here, you are enough, you are magic.

 Claim it.

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