Where did your inner fire go ? How to reconquer yourself ?

Where did your inner fire go ?

So you’ve been here for quite some time. Enough time to be able to go through various traumas, from heart break to loss.

Every year added to your counter gave you wisdom, sure.

But each year also brought its source of trouble.

Now you’re doubting yourself so much that the fear of failure became paralyzing.

Because it is so much easier to not try than to try and fail.

This could be a pretty good solution if you were satisfied of who you are and where you are at this very moment.

But you keep living in the « what if » of your ghost lives.

What do I mean by ghost lives ? Well when you choose a path you often have to renounce another life, and that’s ok.

The perfect picture of your future you painted in your head is getting further away from you and in the middle of all this overthinking and self doubt you forgot where you put your fire.

The same fire that allowed you to be fearless as a kid. Like all your dreams were meant to happen. You lost your sense of purpose by drowning it in all those limiting beliefs.

Sometimes it’s because you grew up in a toxic environment, sometimes you encounter a narcissistic pervert that will wreck your self-esteem.

It doesn’t really matter where the trauma came from at this point. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t adress it, on the contrary.

But you are not your thoughts.

You are not those limiting beliefs.

You can’t be put in a box.

You can’t be tamed.

You are the free spirit you keep admiring from a far.

You are that magic you keep seeking outside of yourself.

Take a chance,

On you.

Love

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